the politics of names
My parent’s had an agreement: If my father could name his children, then my mother could raise us in the church. So I was given a full Muslim name, but I was baptized as a Christian. Growing up I never really liked my name very much. Omar. For a little kid in Texas, a foreign sounding, deeply ethnic name was a nuisance. It stood out too much. It made a scene. In classrooms full of Mike’s and Peter’s and Amy’s and Stephanie’s… Omar felt like the person who wore jeans to a wedding while everyone else was in suits. Very out of place. I always wanted to be a David.
Over the years, in classrooms and sanctuaries, as different Middle Eastern dictators and terrorist groups made headlines, my name was the butt of many jokes, varied translations and stupid questions (imagine the fun in junior high when "Momar Qadafi" sounded too much like "Omar Rikabi").
Not too long ago I was given the opportunity to preach in a Baptist church in Chattanooga, Tennessee. Before the service started I was introduced to the senior pastor. “Hello,” I told him, “my name is Omar and I’ll be doing the preaching tonight.” As he shook my hand, he pulled me close and asked loudly with his southern drawl, “Omar? You’re not a terrorist are you?”
I have to admit that this was not the first time my Muslim name was taken as a suggestion that I was “one of them.” By “them” I mean “the enemy.” The politics and preaching of fear saturates us. Representative Keith Ellison, the Muslim congressman from Minnesota, had to endure talk show host Glenn Beck’s ridiculous questions about his loyalty to “the enemy.” And now Senator Barack Obama is under attack because his middle name is Hussein.
But here is my question: What if Obama was a Muslim? So what? I resent the idea that just because my family is Muslim, or that I have a Muslim name, we are somehow part of “the enemy” who cannot be trusted. I know scores of Muslims in Egypt, Iraq, Jordan, Palestine, Europe and the United States who do not hate Christians, Jews, America or “our freedoms.” But sadly, at a time when tensions are high and we should be working for peace, too many politicians and pastors seem all too willing to fuel the fire of war with proclamations and sermons of ignorance and fear.
What stings even more with the Obama situation is the implied notion that being a Muslim, or having a Muslim or Middle Eastern name, means that you are not as qualified for a position that anyone else with a “normal” background or name could have. Does the fact that my first name is Omar, my middle name is Hamid and I have an Iraqi last name mean that I cannot be a good pastor? Or that my dad cannot be a good father? Or that my cousin cannot be a good surgeon?
No one ever claimed that Ted Kennedy could not be a senator because Irish-Catholics were involved in violence in Belfast. Or imagine the outrage if talk show hosts attacked Senator Joe Liberman simply because he was Jewish. They would quickly be recognized as anti-Semitic and taken off the airwaves. But when it comes to Muslims and the Middle East, we seem to be operating with a different set of rules.
It does not matter that the email rumors about Senator Obama being a Muslim are false. For those who are all too ready to click the “forward” button, they have exposed their real thoughts and convictions of bigotry and mis-placed fear toward the Muslim world.
And for those of us who claim that we say and do what we do “in the name of Jesus”, we should remember that “name” also means “nature.” So then, are we saying and doing what we do in the very nature of Christ, who had a radically different nature when it came to enemies and foreigners?
We must remember that the enemies of America are not always the enemies of God. The world may have radical enemies who happen to be Muslim, but Muslims are not the enemy. The real enemy is the ignorance and fear we see being trumpeted over Obama’s name. And in the end the only testament left will be the further alienation of millions of people who will continue to wonder why the West seems to hate the Muslim world.
We can do so much better.
I love my name.
9 comments:
Omar, now that the racist name thing is out of the bag, please blog on the Blcak Community literally naming themselves what looks like scrabble pieces thrown on the table RATHER THAN having a "white" name. Now that would be a good topic.
Donny
(cyber-persecuted by Sojouners/God's Politics)
I thoroughly enjoyed this post. It touches on a topic which these days isn't treated with the title of "racism" that it deserves.
Personally, I like your name and what it represents very much. It has meaning and tradition, which combine beautifully. I am glad you have learned to love and appreciate your name.
to whomever it may concern, perhaps my feelings are fleeting but in this moment--after reading the asinine push-back you've gotten for your post at God's Politics & here on your own blog--I believe it needs to be acknowledged that ANONYMOUS & VIRTUALLY ANONYMOUS BLOGGING IS COWARDLY! ...particularly when the substance of one's comments is bigotry, self-interest and malice. it violates the basic ethics and premise of conversation, and whoever you may be, you shouldn't do it. if one is not in it for friendly exchange, then by all means, choose not to be in it, but stop running from site to site just to contradict others.
omar, thank you for your courage and vulnerability. i applaud and appreciate it. i've been wanting to respond to that "obama is a muslim" e-mail ever since my wife received it 2 weeks ago. my gut reaction was the same as yours, "so what if he is?" however, the strength of your personal experience lends even more credibility to that response.
i'd love to be in dialogue with you further. i've tried myself to raise questions of how christians use language to offend and oppress. feel free to reach out.
much love,
melvin
I have just found Melvin's blog and he linked to your's and I am so thrilled to find some mosaic in the blogosphere that seems to dominated by the status quo. Thank you both for using your voice to draw attention to these important issues.
I not old enough to remember personally, but I have heard that there was quite a stink when the Kennedy's ran for office because of their Catholic heritage. They broke through the religious ceiling for the "non-protestants" - and I'm sure there have been incredible Jewish politicians whose names I don't know that were the maidenhead that withstood the storm so that Joe Lieberman and others could serve their countries.
I know that the injustice of this and what you've endured seems so wrong, but your courage, and Barack Obama's here will pave the way for those who follow after us.
As a woman in the church I have no endured nearly what you have, but I am so thankful for those who went before me who challenged the "silent woman under God" status quo and made some churches safe enough for me to have a voice. I missed my chance to pastor, but will hopefully be paving the way for our daughters to have that chance.
Being on the cutting edge of change is never easy, but it is oh, so worth it. Thank you for standing in the gap for all of us so that the kingdom coming will be multi-cultural and a mosaic of all God's people.
great post, omar. love your name too.
Thank you, Omar. I found your story on the Sojo e-mail sight. I appreciate you speaking as a personal witness to the hatred of Muslims(Or people different by culture or race). We as a nation have much work to do as a "Christian" Nation. I wonder as a a follower of Jesus Christ if we have forgotten the meaning of being "Salt" and "Light" in a world full of hatred, violence and prejudices? May you continue to speak out and be a voice for Truth and the love of Jesus which the world needs.
Walter+
P.S.: I love my name too!
wow, good stuff omar. reminds me of something we would discuss out at highbridge. :-)
Omar, interesting post and ensuing comments. I'm curious about your upbringing by a Muslim father. In what sense was he a Muslim? What I mean is, a Muslim who allows his son to baptized and brought up a Christian in the Methodist tradition can't be a practicing Muslim in any serious sense of the word, or so it seems to me. Conversely, a Christian parent who would have the child raised a Muslim would be hardly recognized as a Christian in any serious sense of the word.
I hope that is not too personal of a question. I am simply curious.
i really like your name..!!!
actually not so wise 2 comment on a serious post..!!!
luvzz..
Raj
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